In the mating game, men are expected to approach the girl. Given that a lot of women are already in relationships, how are we to know who to approach? The answer is that we should approach anyone that we have an interest in and be social.
If you’ve been practicing your social skills and have made it a habit of talking to new people, then there’s no reason why you can’t approach a girl just to be social. But how can you tell if a girl likes you? The answer is that when you’re talking to her you should be looking for signs of sexual interest in her body language.
If her body language tells you nothing, then your interaction with her remains strictly social. If her body is giving you clear signals that she’s sexually interested, you’ve got a green light to swing into action. Some women use body language deliberately, others aren’t even aware that their bodies are giving away their feelings of attraction.
Here are some signs that she’s attracted to you:
1.) She throws her hair over her shoulders and shows off her neck. This is called the head toss.
2.) She moves her fingers through her hair.
3.) She looks into your eyes with deep interest. Look for lengthy eye contact during conversation.
4.) Her eyes look down at your lips and lingers there.
5.) She blinks a lot and flutters her eyelashes while talking to you.
6.) If she’s shy she’ll get all nervous when you look at her.
7.) A big smile with a relaxed face that shows her teeth. Her eyes should be ‘smiling’ too.
8.) She bumps into you and ‘accidentally’ touches you.
9.) Her brows slightly lift and her eyes widen upon noticing your presence. You should also look for dilated pupils.
10.) Mirroring is likewise a great giveaway. When she unconsciously mimics your body language or your mood, she is mirroring. Other things she may mirror include the rhythm, loudness and tone of your speech.
Other signs of interest that aren’t strictly body language:
11.) She compliments you. Any compliment no matter how indirect is meaningful.
12.) She uses the word “you” a lot in her sentences. She is speaking in the second person which is a more intimate way to communicate.
13.) She closes her sentences with a question that asks for agreement or approval. This is an attempt engage you further into the conversation.
14.) She smiles and laughs at any attempt at humor, even jokes that are totally not funny.
If you’re getting just a few of these signals, opportunity knocks!
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Good write-ups it is true
i likes a girl and i am a good looking boy and i like her very much and how can i make her friend and how can i start conversation with her ..?
@romeo jennifer – Check out these articles:
how to start a conversation with a girl part 1
how to start a conversation with a girl part 2
heymanits geat but first i have t try on my girl
9ce work man kip the fire burning . am a very charming guy, but i fine it difficult 2 seduce a girl & chat wit dem
@eddie – before seducing them you need to know how to chat with them. See the articles here.
Hey! Gud obsrvatn. I tink most grls, even dou intrestd in u, do nt shw off dis sgns. Smd may shw them but are not realy interstd in u. I speak 4rm xpernce. 10kx.
@mikoly – Thank you for your opinion but I also speak from experience
Most of the points you’ve mentioned are true, but there are too many girls who might not show the signs explicitly….particularly in Indian societies……
In conservative societies, like India, girls and boys don’t talk to each other the way they do in western countries, so the only option left for a man is her body language. One of the best ways, I think, is that she will surely ‘look’ at you secretively…..but looking at you is a must…..for you being liked….
a lady admires me and tells her friends about me, how do i get to her….. i have her friends number and this friends also admires me
i really love this girl but am alway shy whenever she comes around or i see her…….havein phobia for girls what can i do
@phaul – There are a number of posts here on shyness and on approaching girls.
See http://www.howtoattractagirl.org/how-to-approach-girls
and http://www.howtoattractagirl.org/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl-part-1
it is really true that most girls uses body language to show that you are welcom.and where girls are many, male can use dumpy mode for somewhile before approaching, by then or when approaching, everyone is ready to define what ur silence meant or u had to say. so u can pick ur choice even date one after the other if, u r also attractive in bed, because the first one would give a little story that would make anyone them imagine how… and is left to u.
thank you
there’s a girl i like alot but she knows i like her now here’s the issue ive seen maybe 2 or 3 of the signs but im not sure if she’s intrested or not. HELP!!!
Bryan, if she enjoys your attention, she likes you. You don’t need to have every one of the signs line up.
she’s s so beautiful .i hope i succeed in winning her heart
i see her looking at me in distance…what does that mean??i can always see her looking at me when im talking to my friends….
none of them happens to me ever
i love a girl
I also noticed some signs like touchin each other
But how would i surely know that she hav interest in me
Is there any other way to know girls heart
M afraid of that my proposal does not affect our good n long time frndship
Plz some one help me
is there any body language by which i can tell her that i love her
That she notice that i hav interest in her
Guys plz help me out
Before she goes out of my life